We know that we are truly born again in that we truly con sider others. Our love must give itself for others as that is what Christ did. Love is seen in deeming another's life on this earth above our own. Don't consider yourself loving just because you've written or spoken it, wanting or intending to love is not of any value. And we must remember that we will not see others as they are in need without time. Give others more than a first impression chance. How do we know where we stand before God? Our hearts will be convinced before Him by our genuine, selfless love for others.