Do not be being conformed to this world, but be being transformed. Don't be conformed to the age and time in which you live. We do not want to conform and follow the age because it contradicts the eternal unchangeables. Be surrendering to God's transformation process. We are what we think, we are what we meditate upon. Part of the transforming of our mind is to discover God's will(in His Word). We want to discover God's will, period, not God's will for my life.