People every day fall in love with people they know are not good for them, but they’re in love. Evaluate first, then fall in love. The Bible commands a believer not marry an unbeliever. I have watched more times than I can count a believer fall in love with an unbeliever and then try to figure out how to obey the Lord, and they won’t, almost never. It’s a tricky thing to have heart for the Lord when our heart is going away from Him.